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The Moment of Lift: How Empowering Women Changes the World

From a Catholic girl's school in Dallas to a computer science degree from Duke University and a career at Microsoft, Melinda Gates's journey has been remarkable. Yet, it's her current role in philanthropy, striving to improve people's lives that truly defines her. Melinda and her husband, Bill Gates, founded the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation in 2000, with the goal of addressing poverty and disease worldwide.

Melinda's road to women empowerment, however, was not a straightforward one. It started with a pregnancy revelation to Bill just before a momentous trip to China and a decision to quit her job at Microsoft to focus on her family. It was her personal experience of using contraceptives to plan her family that later led her to advocate for the same on a global scale. 

After the birth of their first child, Melinda began her journey into philanthropy, first focusing on getting more girls involved in technology. But visiting developing countries and listening to the stories of women in extreme hardship, her focus shifted towards a more significant cause: family planning. 

Melinda realized that access to contraceptives was not just about preventing unwanted pregnancies, but about empowering women. It was the key to breaking barriers that had held women back for so long. By helping women control their reproductive health, they could advance their education, earn an income, raise healthy children, and contribute more to their families and communities. 

On a global scale, this realization led to the launch of FP 2020, a movement to make contraceptives available to 120 million more women by the end of the decade. It was a startling success, raising the largest sum of money ever pledged to support access to contraceptives. 

Melinda's journey illustrates how empowering women is not just about equality; it's about elevating societies. It's about breaking down barriers and opening opportunities that benefit everyone. If we want to lift humanity, we need to empower women, she says. They are the most comprehensive, pervasive, high-leverage investment we can make in human beings. So, let's break down the walls and walk through the doors together.

How Did Melinda Gates's Personal Journey Lead to a Global Fight for Women's Empowerment?

In 2016, Melinda visited Sweden to bid farewell to one of her heroes, Hans Rosling, a renowned professor of international health. Hans was famous for his TED Talks and his book, Factfulness, which revealed a world better than we believe it to be. He was a mentor to Melinda, helping her see poverty through the eyes of the poor.

During one of their numerous encounters, Hans shared a poignant story that encapsulated the harsh realities of extreme poverty and the transformative power of empowering women. It was a story about a woman who died giving birth in a remote village in Mozambique. The villagers respected Hans, not because he saved the woman’s life, but because he respectfully returned her body to the village.

This story profoundly influenced Melinda's understanding of poverty – it's an inability to protect your family, a lack of resources to save your children. It made her realize that empowering women and helping mothers protect their children could play a pivotal role in ending poverty.

This realization shaped the philanthropic work Melinda's husband, Bill, and she embarked on. They launched initiatives to save the lives of children under 5 and newborn babies, especially those born to the poorest of the poor. They funded projects that trained healthcare providers to assist mothers during and after childbirth.

In India, they supported a project that cut newborn mortality in half in eighteen months by teaching safe newborn practices to community health workers. In Indonesia, they met a midwife who had been trained through a government program and was making a significant difference in a rural mountain village. In Rwanda, Melinda worked with Dr. Agnes Binagwaho, the former health minister, on a program to have a skilled birth attendant at the side of every mother in labor.

These experiences taught Melinda an invaluable lesson about delivery and cultural awareness. They need to understand human needs to effectively deliver services and solutions. They need to be aware of the barriers of poverty, distance, ignorance, doubt, stigma, and religious and gender bias, and work to navigate around or break down these barriers.

Moreover, Melinda realized that they need to shape their strategies based on their understanding of how people live their lives. This understanding can shed light on the causes of poverty and help them devise effective solutions.

Lastly, Melinda learned that poverty is not just about exclusion; it's also about the denial of the dignity and respect every human deserves. As they strive to eradicate poverty and disease, they must also strive to create societies where there are no outsiders, where everyone is included and treated with respect.

Empowering Women and Eradicating Poverty: Legacy Lessons from Hans Rosling

In a rural community, a maternal health program called Sure Start encourages mothers to deliver in clinics with medical support. The program's focus is to encourage mothers to deliver in clinics equipped with medical equipment and trained birth attendants. Through interactive games, women are educated about early breastfeeding and newborn care.

One captivating story is of Meena, a mother who delivered her baby in a clinic with the support of Sure Start. She highlights the safety and bonding benefits she experienced by delivering in a clinic and starting breastfeeding immediately. However, Meena also reveals the harsh reality of poverty. Despite the joy of a healthy birth, she confesses to the despair of not being able to provide for her children due to their severe poverty, a confession that became a turning point in the Melinda's work.

This encounter is a stark reminder that while maternal health programs are vital, they are not enough. Contraceptives and family planning are essential for women to control their futures and care for their existing children. In Malawi, women walked miles to clinics for contraceptive shots that were often out of stock, leaving them with inadequate alternatives like condoms, which many couldn't use due to social stigma and domestic violence.

The evolution of family planning initiatives has been marked by significant controversy. Historical figures like Margaret Sanger fought for women's access to contraceptives, facing legal and social opposition. Today, conversations around family planning remain fraught with biases and misinformation, often conflated with population control or abortion debates.

Efforts to expand access to contraceptives must focus on women's voices and needs. In Kenya, a program called Tupange successfully increased contraceptive use by addressing stigma and involving men in the conversation. Similarly, in the Philippines, Senator Pia Cayetano fought for a reproductive health law, despite fierce opposition from the Catholic Church and conservative lawmakers.

In the United States, recent policy changes threaten to roll back progress in family planning, disproportionately affecting low-income women. These policies, driven by a lack of empathy and understanding, burden poor women who need contraceptives to manage their families' well-being.

Globally, family planning is crucial for reducing maternal and child mortality, improving health, and empowering women. Listening to women's stories and addressing their needs with compassion and respect can transform lives and communities.

Can Contraceptives Be the Game-Changer for Maternal and Newborn Health in Underprivileged Communities?

In the bustling village of Kanpur, Sona lived amidst six feet of trash, scavenging for anything of value to sell. Yet, this 10-year-old girl had a dream bigger than her surroundings. When a visitor named Gary, a colleague of Melinda, arrived to discuss family planning, Sona approached him with a handmade toy parrot and a simple, persistent request: "I want a teacher."

Sona's courage and repeated plea didn't just stay with Gary. It resonated with the mothers of the village, who echoed her sentiment: education was the key to breaking free from the cycle of poverty and trash-picking. Inspired, Gary's team worked to get legal recognition for the village, unlocking government services, including schools. Soon, Sona and her peers donned uniforms, held books, and attended classes. One brave girl's voice had transformed her entire community.

This story is a testament to the transformative power of education, especially for girls. Educating girls leads to numerous benefits, from higher wages and economic productivity to improved health outcomes and delayed marriages. Yet, millions of girls worldwide are still out of school, held back by economic, social, and political barriers.

In Mexico, a program called Oportunidades paid families to send their children, especially girls, to school, resulting in increased school attendance and higher education levels for girls. In Bangladesh, the BRAC organization built schools with flexible schedules and free materials, overcoming cultural resistance to girls' education.

One particularly inspiring story is that of Kakenya Ntaiya, a Maasai girl who negotiated with her father to stay in school in exchange for undergoing a traditional rite of passage. Her determination led her to earn a PhD and return to her village to build a school for girls, challenging and changing centuries-old customs.

Similarly, Sister Sudha Varghese's mission to uplift the "untouchable" Musahar girls in India by providing them education and teaching them their rights has empowered these girls to see themselves differently and demand respect and opportunities.

These stories highlight that change often begins with a single courageous voice and the support of a community. Education changes self-perception, which in turn fuels empowerment and societal transformation. Love, support, and high expectations can lift a girl's gaze from the ground to the sky, helping her realize her true potential.

From Trash to Triumph: The Power of a Girl's Dream for Education

Champa, a 22-year-old mother from India, was unable to seek treatment for her malnourished daughter Rani as she was burdened with household chores. This story opened Melinda's eyes to the widespread issue of unpaid work, largely shouldered by women, especially in poorer countries. Women worldwide spend twice as much time as men on unpaid work. 

Unpaid work includes chores like cooking, cleaning, and childcare. Such tasks consume a woman's time, inhibiting her from pursuing an education or earning an income. This unequal division of labor blocks a woman's path to empowerment. 

Melinda experienced these burdens first-hand during her homestay with a family in Tanzania. There, she saw how the woman of the house, Anna, spent 17 hours a day performing household chores. She dreamed of starting a business but couldn't due to her duties. 

Melinda's journey towards an equal partnership with her husband, Bill Gates, was challenging. They debated about sharing unpaid work and the division of their roles at the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation. These discussions and experiences shaped their understanding of gender bias and the need for an equal partnership. 

Gender bias is often unconscious. Through exercises like role play, we can expose this bias and challenge it. Men sharing caregiving duties leads to happier relationships, children, and overall family life. 

Transforming a hierarchical relationship into an equal one requires women to assert themselves. It's about men and women coming together to end hierarchy, and creating a bond based on mutual support and solidarity. This is the path to true empowerment and equality.


Can Sharing Unpaid Work Pave the Way for Gender Equality?

On a visit to India, Melinda was introduced to the grim reality of child marriage. Arriving at a train station to meet a school head, Melinda found herself at a school that was held on the very platform. This platform school catered to homeless children who were often victims of abuse.

One incident that moved Melinda was when the school head rescued a girl who was about to be sold into prostitution by her husband. The girl, a child bride, had been given to her husband in a forced marriage. Her husband and his family were abusing her because her family couldn’t meet the dowry demands.

Child marriage is a blight on society, creating a power imbalance leading to inevitable abuse. In India, where dowries are still prevalent, younger and less educated girls often fetch lower dowries. The families receiving these girls don’t want educated, opinionated girls but obedient and defenseless servants.

Child brides are often expected to take on household chores, and soon, motherhood. This burden of work, pregnancy, and childbirth has dire consequences. Melinda learned of this firsthand when she met Fati, a 16-year-old girl in Niger. Married at 13, she suffered a fistula due to a long and obstructed labor, leading to her ostracization by her husband.

The plight of these girls moved Melinda to action. She met Mabel van Oranje, the wife of Prince Friso of the Netherlands, who had started an organization called Girls Not Brides to end child marriage. Mabel showed Melinda the connection between family planning and child marriage. Child brides are often under pressure to prove their fertility, leading to low contraceptive use and high mortality rates due to childbirth.

Melinda tried to understand the issue from a data perspective and found that child brides have higher rates of HIV, are more likely to be abused, have lower education levels, and have a greater age difference with their husbands, leading to more abuse.

Later, Melinda traveled to Ethiopia to meet child brides and people working to end this custom. The girls who had been married were soft-spoken and seemed defeated. The girls who were still in school, on the other hand, spoke louder and with confidence.

These experiences forced Melinda to question her role and rights as an outsider in supporting efforts to change these communities' cultures. She believes in universal values of human rights, equality, and the right to flourish. And when communities deny these rights to their women, she believes it's fair to join the fight for women.

Melinda supports the work of organizations like Tostan, which is working to change cultures from within, challenging social norms and promoting empathy. Through conversations about accepted practices, biases are revealed, and empathy is fostered. This leads to the understanding that everyone deserves to benefit from science and progress, regardless of their gender or status.

As communities challenge old traditions and strive to remove biases, everything changes. By ending forced marriages and child marriages, we can ensure that women are happy and successful in their marriages and that their education doesn't end prematurely.

Confronting Child Marriage: A Journey through India, Niger, and Ethiopia

Patricia, a dedicated farmer and mother from a remote village in Malawi, had been struggling for years to support her family through her farm, despite her hard work and precision. 

However, due to the gender biases deeply rooted in her community, she faced multiple barriers that hindered her success. She did not own her land due to a traditional law that restricts women from inheriting property, and she had no say in family expenses, which often excluded farming supplies. Also, she had little time for farming or marketing her produce due to her household duties, and the seeds she had access to were not suitable for her needs.

However, things began to change when Patricia joined CARE Pathways, a program that not only shares farming tips but also educates about equality. Through a series of exercises, Patricia and her husband started understanding each other's roles better, leading to a more equal partnership. Patricia's husband started supporting her farming efforts, allowing them to invest in improved seeds and techniques, consequently increasing their farm output and income.

Patricia's story is not unique. Millions of women worldwide face similar challenges due to gender biases deeply ingrained in societies. Whether it's farming or any other sector, gender discrimination holds back women's potential and hinders overall economic growth. This discrimination is also often encoded in laws, restricting women from certain jobs, limiting their work hours, and controlling their financial freedom.

Even religion, humanity’s oldest institution, plays a part in perpetuating gender biases. Male-dominant interpretations of holy scriptures often result in laws and customs that suppress women. To challenge this, it's essential to have women's voices in religious leadership, shifting the balance of power. However, women cannot do this alone; they need male allies who can advocate for change from within these institutions.

Can Challenging Gender Biases in Farming and Religion Empower Millions of Women Worldwide?

Melinda Gates discusses the importance of gender equality, particularly in the workplace. She shares her personal experiences as a woman in the tech industry, recalling pivotal moments and figures in her career. 

One such figure was a woman at IBM who encouraged Melinda to pursue a job offer from Microsoft, predicting the company’s rapid growth and the opportunities it would present for her. This advice proved pivotal in shaping Melinda's career trajectory and her views on the importance of women in tech. 

Melinda also recounts the culture shock she experienced upon joining Microsoft, a company whose culture was dominated by men and their aggressive, often brash way of conducting business. She considered leaving, but instead decided to adapt by developing her own style and seeking out like-minded colleagues. This led to the formation of a supportive community within Microsoft that challenged the existing culture and fostered a more inclusive environment.

Melinda emphasizes the importance of role models, highlighting Patty Stonesifer, who became her mentor and role model at Microsoft. Patty's leadership style, which encouraged openness and the ability to admit mistakes, greatly influenced Melinda and helped her become more authentic in her work.

Melinda also discusses the challenges faced by women in the workplace, particularly in the tech industry. She shares the story of Susan Fowler, who exposed sexual harassment at Uber, sparking a broader conversation about sexism in Silicon Valley and beyond.

Melinda argues that for true equality to be achieved, diversity must be embraced. This is particularly important in tech, given the industry’s significant societal impact. She stresses that women should not just be given positions in tech, but should be recognized and hired for the positions they have earned.

Melinda also explores the issue of paid family and medical leave, something the United States still lacks. She shares a personal story of implementing an improvised version of this at Microsoft, demonstrating the profound impact such policies can have on individuals and, by extension, their work.

Championing Gender Equality in Tech

In 2016, Hans Rosling, a respected global health expert, was nearing the end of his life due to cancer. He met with Melinda in his home in Sweden to share one final, impactful lesson. Hans drew a simple map, illustrating that those living at the crossroads or near a river are often okay, but those on the margins, marked in the corners, are forgotten. “You can’t let the world forget about them,” he urged Melinda with tearful passion.

This sentiment resonated deeply with Melinda, especially as she reflected on her foundation’s work, such as a trip to Thailand in 2001. There, she met a woman who candidly admitted she would become a sex worker to keep her children alive, highlighting the severe choices faced by those in marginalized communities.

Years later, Melinda's foundation launched Avahan, an HIV prevention program in India, which relied on the leadership of sex workers. This high-stakes initiative aimed to reduce unprotected sex between sex workers and their clients, a critical pathway for HIV transmission. However, it soon became clear that the program needed to address a more immediate concern: violence against sex workers.

The sex workers shared that preventing violence was their most urgent need, as fear of violence hindered their ability to insist on condom use. In response, Avahan set up a system where sex workers could call for help, and a group of women, along with a lawyer and media person, would rush to their aid. This approach dramatically reduced violence and empowered the women.

The foundation also established community centers where sex workers could gather, rest, and support each other. These centers became hubs of empowerment, fostering a strong sense of community and self-worth among the women. This collective strength enabled them to demand their rights and protect their lives, ultimately playing a crucial role in curbing the HIV epidemic in India.

Melinda’s journey through these experiences revealed the profound impact of women coming together, finding their voices, and supporting each other. It underscored the necessity of addressing immediate threats like violence to achieve long-term goals like disease prevention. The story of Avahan and the resilience of the women involved highlighted the power of inclusion and community in driving social change.

Ultimately, Melinda realized that true progress comes not just from achieving equality but from fostering deep connections and love among people. It is through these bonds that we can lift each other up and create a world where everyone belongs and thrives.

Can Women On The Margins Ignite Global Change?

Melinda Gates' journey from a career in technology to philanthropy underlines the importance of empowering women as a means to elevate societies. Her personal experiences and encounters with women from various parts of the world revealed the crucial role of family planning and access to contraceptives in women's empowerment. 

Gates found that contraceptives not only prevent unwanted pregnancies, but also provide women with opportunities to advance their education, earn an income, and contribute to their communities. This realization led to the launch of FP 2020, a global movement to make contraceptives available to millions of women. 

Gates emphasizes that empowering women is not just about equality; it's about breaking down barriers, opening opportunities, and investing in human beings to uplift humanity.

Gates also discusses the transformative power of education, especially for girls. Education provides women with control over their lives and helps them gain self-confidence to challenge social norms. However, she stresses that transformation is not just about providing access to education, but also about changing how girls perceive themselves. 

Gates also takes us through her journey towards gender equality, especially in terms of unpaid work and the need for an equal partnership. She underlines the need to challenge gender biases at every level - from laws and customs to religious interpretations. By doing so, we can ensure that women have the resources, opportunities, and respect they deserve, leading to a more equitable and productive world.

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